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Moderate to severe dementia · Arizona

Paying for care

For both paths. See both paths.

The short answer
  • Make one free call first: Region One's 24-hour Senior Help Line, 602-264-4357.
  • Medicare pays for doctors and hospice, not daily care.
  • Ask the doctor for one letter: they need "substantial supervision" due to severe cognitive impairment. (The IRS, insurers and the VA ask for it.)
  • Give no money or house away before free legal help. (ALTCS looks back 5 years, the VA 3.)

Who pays for what

What Medicare pays
CostMedicare
Doctor visits and the 99483 care-plan visitPart B. You pay 20% after the $283 deductible (2026).
A nurse at home if homebound; rehab after a hospital stayYes, under its rules
Hospice$0, up to $5 a prescription. Not room and board.
Respite for youThrough GUIDE or hospice
Daily help, assisted living, memory care, long nursing home stays, paying familyNo
Daily care, respite and family (costs)
CostALTCS (Medicaid)VAYou
Daily help, assisted living, memory care, nursing homesYes, once approvedAid and AttendanceYes, or long-term care insurance
Respite for youUp to 600 hours a yearYesFree: Region One, Lifespan Respite
Paying a family memberYesSome programsYes

VA Aid and Attendance

Yearly maximum, 2026
  1. Veteran$29,093
  2. Veteran with a spouse$34,488
  3. Surviving spouse$18,697

What: a monthly pension for wartime veterans and surviving spouses, more when they need another person's help.

Why families use it: cash for any caregiver or place. Care costs come off their income; the VA pays the gap up to the maximum. With a clinician's letter, home care and memory care can count.

Pros: a free accredited VSO files it.

Cons: wartime service, and age 65 or a disability. Savings plus a year's income under $163,699, not counting home and car. A 3-year look-back at gifts. Walk away from anyone who charges to file, or says to move money into a trust or annuity.

Federal tax breaks

Insurance you may already have

PolicyWhatProsCons
Long-term care insurance (NAIC guide)Pays toward care at home or a facilityTax-free, up to $430 a day in 2026You pay the first 20 to 100 days
Life insurance (NAIC guide)Cash now: accelerated death benefit, or selling itOften tax-free if terminally or chronically illBelow the death benefit; can count against ALTCS

Worth knowing: Arizona policies cannot require more than "supervision or verbal cueing" for dementia. Most do not pay family caregivers.

An Arizona Partnership policy shields a dollar of savings from ALTCS for each dollar it pays.

Name a second person for late-bill notices. (In Arizona, a policy lapsed through memory loss must be restored if asked within 5 months, with back premiums.)

The house: loans, deeds and gifts

Reverse mortgage (HECM)

What: a loan against the home for owners 62 and older who live there. No monthly payment; the debt grows. Pros: you never owe more than the home is worth.

Cons: up to $6,000 to set up, closing costs, 2% up front and 0.5% a year for insurance. It usually comes due after over 12 months in a care facility, unless a co-borrower lives there.

Ask a HUD-approved counselor first (required): 800-569-4287. CFPB guide.

OptionHow it worksALTCSTaxes for heirs
Beneficiary deed (A.R.S. 33-405)Recorded before death; passes to named peopleUsually safe from payback: skips probateIf sold, taxed only on gain after death
Giving the house to familyA deed change counts as a gift5-year look-back: months without long-term careIf sold, taxed on all gain since purchase
"Lady Bird deed"Not Arizona law

Worth knowing: with a beneficiary deed, the owner can still sell, borrow or cancel.

Giving a daughter a $150,000 home can mean 30 months without long-term care. A spouse or disabled child is exempt.

Beneficiary deed gaps: a lien AHCCCS may record after 90 days in a nursing home, with no return expected, stays on the house. How a lien AHCCCS records after a death meets a deeded house is not settled.

ALTCS payback after a death

Paying a family member

ProgramWho can be paidRules
ALTCS attendant careA child, grandchild, sibling or in-law. A spouse, up to 40 hours a week.Through an ALTCS agency, once approved. Spouse: only care beyond usual help; not self-directed.
Lifespan Respite, 888-737-7494A worker you choose, not a spouse, child, parent, guardian or housematePays you back. You must live with the person, who cannot be left alone.
VA Veteran-Directed CareWorkers who "might include their own family member or neighbor"A budget for the veteran

If it's just you: a friend, a neighbor or someone from church can be the paid respite worker.

GUIDE respite: use it before hospice

Free help lines

WhoPhoneWhat for
Region One Senior Help Line602-264-4357Anything, any hour. Maricopa County.
SHIP Arizona1-800-432-4040Medicare and savings programs
Arizona Senior Citizens Law Project602-252-6710 (Tuesdays 10 a.m. to 1 p.m.)Legal help at 60 and over, no income limit. Maricopa County. Ask about deeds.
Community Legal Services602-258-3434 (weekdays 9 a.m. to 2 p.m.) or 800-852-9075Legal help if money is tight. AHCCCS problems too.

A short money plan

  1. This week: find the papers (Medicare card, policies, a DD-214, last year's tax return). Start a care-cost log: receipts, aide hours, facility statements.
  2. Before a move: if married, the first month of long-term care sets the at-home spouse's savings share; plan it with legal help.

Our biases, out loud: we lean on government pages and are not lawyers or tax preparers. The AI assistant that helped research this leans toward establishment sources and hedged wording.

Checked 14 October 2026. Figures change every year. Sources.